I never like reading about young guys having social anxieties and issues because of hair loss. I agree that you should hold off for as long as possible and avoid surgery but it is a worthwhile endeavor to have a consultation with an IAHRS doctor. Just try not to look at any encouraging comments as motivation to actually have surgery because there are no guarantees that surgery will make you happy, regardless of who it is that performs your procedure. The last thing you want, especially since you are already so down, is to be in a worse position because of any decisions made out of desperation. A good doctor will identify this after speaking with you and hopefully will help you make the right decision.